Not Everything That Grows Makes Noise
The spring equinox is the most low key holiday on the calendar. No gifts, no costumes, no small talk about casseroles. Just a quiet cosmic shrug where […]
Category: Midwestern
Simmer Pots
The windows are shut and locked, the heat is on at home, the air is drier than the Sahara Desert, and your nose whistles with every breath you take. I have a solution!
Absence & Advocacy
It has been a minute. A hot minute. Like it feels like eons, ages, eras, generations – and simultaneously if feels like no time at all, a blink of an eye, two shakes of a lamb’s tail. But I am still here. Last we spoke, I had cancer. In May, I will find out if […]
Talk To Them
One of my immediate internal monologues when I found out that I have cancer went a little bit like this: How do I tell my babies that I have cancer? Should I tell my babies that I have cancer? […]
More Than A Year | I’m Not Sorry
It has been more than a year since I have written. Please don’t be upset with me. It has been more than a year since I have addressed you, my faithful readers. But I promise, it really hasn’t. But it has. I have started posts since the last time I have written. I have started them, and stopped them. It has been more than a year – but the “more than a year” has been the strangest, hardest, most intense “more than a year” I think any of us, on earth, have ever experienced…
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August turned one 3 months ago. It was a wonderful birthday party full of friends at the public pool near our house. Splashing, playing and eating abounded and not a single meltdown was to be had (adult or child!).
He had his 12 month appointment on his birthday, and his stats were […]
Mom Groups
Before I had August when people would mention “Mom Groups” I would shudder. Immediately the thoughts that came to mind were hoards of unsolicited advice, alternative remedies, keeping up with the Joneses and a whole lot of “Well I did it that way, and my kid is fine!” but what I came across, during my pregnancy couldn’t have been further from that image. […]
The Little Things
A lot of times parents with older kids give out gobs of unsolicited advice. It’s with the best of intentions, or at least that’s what I tell myself to stay sane. I hear parents tell me to write all of this down because it’s so easy to forget, and before we know it […]
Spring – Thursday Things
“Spring is the time of year when it is summer in the sun and winter in the shade.”
– Charles Dickens –
Here is a list of my favorite things about Midwestern Spring which I never in a million years believed I’d ever miss when I first moved to Florida in 2011. Now that we’ve been back in Illinois for just over a year […]
I Fed A Troll
Yesterday, I made a mistake.
I fed a troll.
Martin and I had just woken up, and I was casually scrolling through Facebook, while checking the morning’s happenings and any newsworthy events we should know before we started our day, when I came across a meme […]
A Hopeful Midwesterner 